🔍 Overview
Developed by psychologist Robert Neimeyer, the Meaning Reconstruction Model views grief as a process of rebuilding one’s sense of meaning, identity, and worldview after loss. When someone we love dies, the world as we knew it can feel shattered – what once made sense may no longer fit. This model helps explain how people gradually reconstruct their understanding of themselves and the world in light of their loss.
Rather than focusing on “recovery,” it emphasises growth through reflection and understanding – exploring who we are now, what matters most, and how we can live meaningfully in a world that has changed.
When read alongside the Five Stages of Grief, the Meaning Reconstruction Model may help explain how grief can involve profound emotional change as well as a search for meaning.
🙌 How It Helps
This model helps people make sense of disorientation and confusion that often follows loss. It recognises that that finding meaning doesn’t make the loss itself “okay”, but that creating new meaning can help you reconnect with stability, identity and purpose.
It offers language for exploring big questions, like “Who am I now?”, and “What does this loss mean for my life going forward?”
🤍 May Be Helpful If…
- You feel your sense of identity or direction has changed since your loss.
- You find yourself asking deeper questions like “Why” or “What now.”
- You’re trying to make sense of what’s happened and find ways to move forward with purpose.
- You want to explore how your beliefs or worldview have been affected by loss.
📌 Tips for Using This Model
- Try journaling about what has changed for you – in your sense of self, beliefs, or relationships.
- Notice what helps you make sense of your loss and what feels grounding or purposeful.
- Talking with a counsellor or peer group can help you explore these questions safely and gently.
📖 Further Reading
Neimeyer, R. A. (2001). Meaning Reconstruction and the Experience of Loss.
Remember: these models are simply ways of understanding grief. You are the expert in your own experience, and you never need to fit yourself into any single model.
Take what’s helpful and leave the rest.
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