πŸ“š Books for Grief – Advent – Day Eleven


Now on day eleven, we want to share a childhood classic – The Boy, The Mole, The Fox & The Horse by Charlie Mackesy.

This heartfelt story is an exploration of hope, courage, love, and asking for help, resonating with readers of all ages.

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The Boy, The Mole, The Fox & The Horse

by Charlie Mackesy

Published in 2019, The Boy, the Mole, the Fox and the Horse by artist and illustrator Charlie Mackesy reflects on themes of hope, courage, love, and forgiveness.

The book originated after Mackesy experienced the death of a close friend, prompting him to draw a boy speaking to a horse as an expression of his grief and a conversation about the nature of bravery. This moment of personal reflection evolved into a series of illustrations and messages that resonate deeply with readers. Its central ideaβ€”that “asking for help isn’t giving up… It’s refusing to give up”β€”has made it a meaningful resource for those navigating loss and seeking connection.

Translated into 55 languages, the book’s universal themes continue to appeal to children and adults alike.

⭐⭐⭐⭐⭐ A must read for all ages

“A short 20 minute read from start to finish, the book left me feeling as if I was emerging from a fog. I felt calm. Not something I expected really. I have bought a copy for all my grandchildren with a note inside to use the book as a friend when they need one. Each page has a profound message. Simple, but easy to understand. You can dip into it and see where you open it. There is a treasure of though provoking wisdom there.
Amazing book to cherish.”

Readers praise the book’s illustrations as stunning and thoughtfully crafted. They find the writing style simple yet impactful, complementing the artwork beautifully. Suitable for all ages, the book delivers a meaningful message that resonates widely. Many consider it an ideal gift for loved ones, describing it as comforting, heartfelt, and uplifting. The memorable quotes and reflections within the text are particularly appreciated by readers.

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🧠 Understand the ‘Stages’ of Grief

Many people first encounter grief through the idea of β€œstages,” but the model is often simplified or misunderstood.

Our Stages of Grief page looks at where the framework began, what each stage represents, and how it can support understanding – without suggesting that grief unfolds in a tidy order.

Explore the page to learn:

πŸ“˜ A clear explanation of what the Five Stages are (and what they’re not)
🧭 Why grief rarely moves in a straight line
🌊 How feelings can rise and fall in waves
🧩 Other grief models that may resonate more with your experience


🀝 Learn to confidently lead a Grief Support Group.