Category: Personal Stories

  • Aiming for Normality

    Aiming for Normality

    Many people just attempt to maintain a “normal life” following the death of a loved one. This can range from returning to work, visiting family members, spending time with friends, and even just leaving the house for a walk. Whether it is six months or six years since your loved one passed away it can…

  • We All Need Outlets

    We All Need Outlets

    Our Loss Foundation bereavement support groups and events provide a great opportunity for people to share where they are at with grief. It is not uncommon for people to feel like they are doing reasonably ok at coping one day, but feel completely bereft and hopeless the next. And that can be a scary feeling.…

  • How Do I Adapt to Loss?

    How Do I Adapt to Loss?

    At our Loss Foundation bereavement support events we often find ourselves talking about what it is like adapting to a life without our loved ones; the emotions it evokes, the smallest of reminders that take us by surprise, the unpredictable nature of grief, and how we find ourselves oscillating between coping and not coping. For…

  • Loving Again – Grief and New Relationships

    Loving Again – Grief and New Relationships

    When a beloved partner of ours dies, the topic of having new romantic relationships may arise at some point, either in comments from others, or thoughts of our own. What do we think about embarking on a new romantic relationship? Is it something that we think is possible? Is it something that we suddenly feel…

  • Anniversaries and Events when Grieving

    Anniversaries and Events when Grieving

    A common theme that arises in discussions at our Loss Foundation bereavement support get togethers is that of anniversaries and special events. This is especially poignant around Christmas and New year, but also moves on to other ‘events’. A main one is the first anniversary of a loved one’s passing; which can seem like a…

  • Caring for the Carers

    Caring for the Carers

    Across our Loss Foundation support events we feel privileged to hear your stories and experiences. It takes strength to reach out for support and speak about a loss, and we never underestimate how difficult it can be to do just that. At the same time, we are constantly witnessing the benefits of talking and being…

  • Rebecca’s Story

    Rebecca’s Story

    For Tom Ellis, who always thought my writing was funny. Are we ravinnnn. Before the age of 21 my only knowledge of ‘losing a parent’ was being stood in Asda in sheer panic looking for Mum or Dad down each aisle. Unfortunately I now know the true and the worst extent of losing a parent.…

  • My Grief Wave

    My Grief Wave

    It can creep up on me, Sweeping over, engulfing that moment. I try to rush to the surface of the bewilderment, Take a breath, Questioning how that happened so silently. Sigh, I remember now, Life has changed as I once knew it. I think of what Dad would want for me, what he would say,…

  • Bringing People Together After Loss

    Bringing People Together After Loss

    After my father died of cancer in 2008, my family and I struggled to find the support we needed. The help there was, if any was available at all, seemed to be time-limited and dictated by where we lived. It was also disappointing that we didn’t have the opportunity to meet others who were going…

  • Jamie’s story

    Jamie’s story

    My name is Jamie. I’m 35-years old and live in London. My twin brother, Charlie, was diagnosed with pancreatic cancer in 2018 and died two months after diagnosis. To say my family and I were devastated is an understatement – I felt like part of me died. My brother Charlie was… it pains me to…

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