Grief, it’s a Personal Journey

Loss can leave us feeling vulnerable and isolated, and so we would like to acknowledge the strength and bravery that it takes to come along to a bereavement support session, be it the first time, or the return after some time away.

For some, bereavement is a relatively new experience whereas for others, it is a familiarity they have known for some time. Everyone has had their own experiences with cancer and with the loss that it has caused, and we share many of these similarities and differences during our bereavement events. It can be very normalising to hear how others experience loss, learning that you are not alone in the events you witnessed and now try to process. However, grief is ultimately a personal journey – nobody can tell you what you should be feeling and when you should be feeling it.

Remember that no one emotion is more right or valid than another, but that understanding what you are feeling can be important in helping to identify what you may need at that particular time. That may be a need for comfort, or for solitude, to talk or to cry.

Across all of our support events we aim to provide you with the support you need when you need it, and amongst others who have experienced something similar.

You can find information on our next opportunities to come together on our Calendar.

With warmth and kindness,
Dr Francine Bear
Clinical Psychologist

Photo by JOHN TOWNER on Unsplash

๐Ÿง  Explore How the โ€˜Stages of Griefโ€™ Work

The โ€œstagesโ€ of grief are one of the most familiar frameworks people turn to when trying to understand loss – yet theyโ€™re often interpreted too literally.

Our Stages of Grief guide breaks down where the model came from, what each stage represents, and how it can offer insight without suggesting grief moves in tidy steps.

Explore the page to learn:
๐Ÿงญ Why grief shifts over time rather than progressing in order
๐ŸŒŠ How emotions can rise and fall in waves
๐Ÿงฉ Other grief models that may resonate more deeply with your experience


When Erin created The Loss Foundation, she wanted people grieving to be able to find the support she wished had existed when her dad died.



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