Category: Coping Strategies

  • My Mind is All Over the Place

    My Mind is All Over the Place

    We often have diverse attendees at our support events; younger and older members, people who have lost partners and parents, people who had been newly bereaved, and people who had been bereaved for a while longer (although still recently in the scheme of things!) Diversity can often be a theme of discussion at our events,…

  • A Poem from a Group Member

    A Poem from a Group Member

    Sorrow, Sadness, Anguish, Physical and Emotional Pain, Emptiness and Aloneness, I have experienced all of them since you went away. They say Love is not without Pain, that there is a dying to ourselves, when the other is away. It is better to have Loved, than not at all. I have so much gratitude, that…

  • Lyrics for Loss

    Lyrics for Loss

    Following one of our groups, one of our beneficiaries kindly shared their thoughts which we thought may be helpful for all: “As is normal with me on my home from a group session, I often think about what we talked about and what was said; especially being somewhat of a reflector.  At this group I…

  • The Support of Families and Strangers

    The Support of Families and Strangers

    Grief is a deeply individual experience, and one person’s experience after one month may or may not be similar to someone who has been bereaved for the same length of time. Grief is not a one-size-fits-all, and there is no set linear timescale that applies when living beyond a loved one’s passing, no matter what…

  • Grief, it’s a Personal Journey

    Grief, it’s a Personal Journey

    Loss can leave us feeling vulnerable and isolated, and so we would like to acknowledge the strength and bravery that it takes to come along to a bereavement support session, be it the first time, or the return after some time away. For some, bereavement is a relatively new experience whereas for others, it is…

  • In Spirit

    In Spirit

    Thank you to Elizabeth who shared this beautiful poem with us: I have left the earth, But I am still about, I kiss your cheek at night When your light is out. I am the wind That blows in your hair, I am spirit now, I am near. I sit on your shoulder, I see…

  • Expectations

    Expectations

    When grieving we can often find ourselves anticipating and focusing on particular dates, e.g. anniversaries (good and bad) or birthdays. These dates can provide a sense of anticipatory anxiety as we may expect that those dates will be awful. We often search for ways of coping and feeling supported in order to get through each…

  • Being in the Moment

    Being in the Moment

    At our bereavement support groups, we come together to share the experience of losing a loved one to cancer, whether that means expressing something specific that is on your mind or just listening to other people’s experiences and taking comfort in knowing you are not alone in what you are going through. It can sometimes feel…

  • Guilt in Grief

    Guilt in Grief

    One theme or discussion that comes up when talking about grief is the concept of time – what it means to people and how we experience it. Some people share with us that time seems to be flying by making them feel like their loved one is further away, whereas others may feel like life is…

  • Being Recently Bereaved

    Being Recently Bereaved

    Our support events at The Loss Foundation are there to support people bereaved by cancer, whether it be a recent loss or a loss from many years ago. All are welcome for support at any point in their bereavement. We know how difficult it can be to seek support when you are recently bereaved, and wanted to…

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